rivkah. 25. bad at themes. inconsistent.

this reddit post is so good.
a trans guy who is also a butch who dates both men and women– I aspire to be like this. oh, to play 5d chess with gender.
It’s also worth pointing out that Ukraine has a population of 43 million, while Gaza’s is only a little over 2 million
And yet…
cyle:
I need to follow less people permanently arguing with strangers and more people saying shit like “I would be the first person to sit down with Thomas the Tank Engine and truly listen.”
@cyle Hey man, is there a list of all the staffmembers on Tumblr’s tumblr? Yknow, because you are one.
nope
That sucks, I’ll have to block as I go.
That was easy. By the way it’s so obvious that some of these blogs are Harry Potter enjoyers lol, no wonder they nuked anyone that mentioned it, it’s really blatant.
Do you guys remember how kidnap fantasies were popular on wattpad because young girls and queer teens were both made to feel shame at the thought of their own sexualities, so the fantasy of being kidnapped totally against their will was a way for them to engage with a romantic or sexual fantasy without feeling morally in the wrong for doing so? Added bonus that the fantasy involved being whisked away from repressive environments like home or school, right?
Finding out that Bram Stoker was in a sexless marriage and that scholars believe that he very likely was closeted gay puts the entire book into perspective as to WHY it reads EXACTLY like a self insert wattpad Dracula kidnap fic:
“I TOTALLY love my wife and would never do anything that an upstanding Good Straight Working Man wouldn’t do but oh nooo, big strong man with broad back and strong enough arms to carry me back to bed like a princess trapped me and claimed me as his, completely against my will 👉👈 But he protects me against the bad evil sexual women (who I assure you, I am TOTALLY sexually attracted to, as any straight man with a choice would be) but trust me, I do NOT want ANY of this. What’s that? The Count is not capable of feeling love? Would be a shame if I had the special ability to change tha-”
This is also the fantasy behind all those old bodice-ripper romances that people today like to mock or call problematic, by the way.
“Oh, my next forty years are going to consist of nothing but washing dishes and keeping house and bearing children for the disdainful man I married right out of high school because my parents said college was for men and I had no other obvious life path open to me? What if a pirate captain thought I was worth stealing away from it all? [what if I ran away but no-one could blame me for leaving]?”
#I read an article a long time ago about a woman who was raised in an incredibly repressive conservative christian community#where all that mattered was purity and virginity etc #She talked about how for a long time rape fantasies were the only way she could derive any pleasure from sex #because she couldn’t feel safe exploring the idea of wanting sex #it wasn’t really ABOUT rape or eroticizing assault or whatever #it was about creating a scenario where she was free from the shame associated with wanting #i think this is true of a lot of icky-seeming stuff in romance and erotica #it’s an imaginary scenario where nothing you don’t really want actually happens #but you can’t be blamed or feel guilty for it #you didn’t do anything wrong#anyway that article changed my perspective a lot #i think there’s also something to be said for people who have felt ugly and undesirable their whole lives #enjoying fictional scenarios where a hot alpha werewolf or whatever is so attracted to them he ‘cant help himself’ or whatever #because it can also be really shameful to want to be desired #when you feel like youre ugly and gross ( @headspace-hotel )
Official posters for each episode of The Afterparty.
GRACE/HANNAH in THE AFTERPARTY S02E02
requested by anon
I can’t dance alone. It literally takes two to tango.
You’ll find another tango partner. I believe in you.
[CUE CARELESS WHISPER]THE AFTERPARTY
2.07 Ulysses
GRACE & HANNAH
The Afterparty (2022— )
Season 2, Episode 4
Hannah & Grace
The Afterparty s02e04
With the actors and writers strike in the U.S., I’m reminded of this tweet from John Cho who got zero payment from a residual check.